This week our church faced a tremendous loss. Rev. Juli Reinholz has been a pastor, district superintendent, coach mentor, and friend among us. Together we have felt the tremendous impact of grief and loss.
Today, we light this candle in remembrance of Juli as we continue to hold her family, our church family, and her friends in our prayers.
While we face this loss together, we know others among us have faced other losses – family members, colleagues, and friends. Loved ones we know even more intimately and grieve this day too.
So, we light a second candle in remembrance of those beloveds.
Our time of grief will take many forms in the coming weeks, months, and even years. Grief isn’t something that just dissipates with time. It is something we are invited to engage, to feel, to grasp, to name, to make manifest through the arts, and to share with one another. Healing through grief will require our participation. That will come in storytelling, making favorite recipes, or eating favorite foods, going to favorite places, shedding tears, sharing in laughter and in holding space for one another.
As we take but one step in the journey today, I offer you these words from Jan Richardson:
Stay
I know how your mind
rushes ahead
trying to fathom
what could follow this.
What will you do,
where will you go,
how will you live?
You will want
to outrun the grief.
You will want
to keep turning toward
the horizon,
watching for what was lost
to come back,
to return to you
and never leave again.
For now
hear me when I say
all you need to do
is to still yourself
is to turn toward one another
is to stay.
Wait
and see what comes
to fill
the gaping hole
in your chest.
Wait with your hands open
to receive what could never come
except to what is empty
and hollow.
You cannot know it now,
cannot even imagine
what lies ahead,
but I tell you
the day is coming
when breath will
fill your lungs
as it never has before
and with your own ears
you will hear words
coming to you new
and startling.
You will dream dreams
and you will see the world
ablaze with blessing.
Wait for it.
Still yourself.
Stay.
—Jan Richardson
Weekly scripture: Ezekiel 36:8-12 & Romans 15:14-21
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